Are your relationships building you up—or keeping you stuck?

Not all relationships lead to growth. Some reinforce pressure and performance, while others invite transformation, maturity, and deep connection. In this post, discover how to recognize the difference between conforming and transforming relationships—and how to build a home, community, and life where growth is safe, not littered with shame.

Is struggle shaping your family—or just stressing you out?

Struggle is unavoidable, but how your family navigates it makes all the difference. In the world’s system, struggle leads to burnout, control, and fear. In the kingdom of God, it becomes a path to growth, resilience, and transformation. Discover how to shift your perspective on struggle and create a home where challenges lead to strength, not stress.

Are You Parenting for Compliance or Transformation?

Most parenting advice focuses on managing behavior—rewarding the good, punishing the bad. But what if there’s a better way? Transactional parenting relies on control, external rewards, and fear of consequences. Transformational parenting builds trust, emotional security, and lifelong maturity.

Are Your Children Anxious or at Peace?

Parenting today is filled with pressure—pressure to succeed, control behavior, and measure up. But what if the way we’ve been taught to parent is actually keeping our children from the peace and security Jesus invites them into?

Have You Ever Tried to “Abide” and Just Ended Up Striving?

For many of us, the idea of abiding in Jesus feels like just another spiritual to-do—one more thing to get right, one more way to prove our faithfulness. But what if abiding isn’t about trying harder at all?